SuiteSTyLe of the Week: Mary J. Blige

I may be a tad bit bias when it comes to Mary J. I am a huge fan of her music and style. Once again she didn't disappoint me. Here she is at the premier of Notorious, looking well relaxed and winter appropriate. This whole look gets my stamp of approval.

Ready for a Laugh

Your favorite cross dressing church announcement making old lady comedian is coming to town this weekend. You know him as the host of HOT 104.1's morning show....RICKEY SMILEY. He will be doing his thing all weekend long at Dee Lee's House of Comedy. Make sure you get your tickets TODAY because this extra skinny brother is sure to sell out.

A Bit Of Advice

This morning I opened our email and was surprised to see that someone had sent in a letter with some thoughts that have obviously been on her mind. I have so many things running through my head and I will address her issues but this may be to big for me, she may need advice from a lot of people or probably just a good therapist. Here is the letter

7:32 PM (16 hours ago) Reply

Dear Suite,
I've recently found myself in a crazy situation. I want to talk to my friends but i know they will judge me. I am in a situation that i cant get myself out of. I've known this guy for a while and i really like him. we were just friends but the past year we have become intimate. he makes me smile and makes me feel complete. the problem with the situation is that he is my cousin's boyfriend. i know he and i should not have gone there and i really can't explain how it happened. I was pregnant by him in the summer and i had a miscarriage. my cousin was there with me the whole time rubbing my back and just being there for me. she was pissed that "the father" was not there for me. I hate going to family functions b/c they are together. Sometimes we kind of share a look or something but it makes me feel bad because she is like my best friend too. I really don't want to stop messing with him but I know that if she finds out she will be pissed at me.And don't get me wrong i luv my cousin, but this is the best relationship I ever been in. this is a horrible situation and i just need some sound advice on what to do.

Wow, I don't really know where to start with this. I normally don't like to give advice but since she seems kind of in a desperate situation we will try to help. The fact that he is your cousin's man does make this situation crazy. If I were you I would get out. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine the pain you would feel from a betrayal like this. The thing with love is that you can't help who you love, but you can stop the love. Stay away from him or just come out and tell her so it won't seem like you are being shady. No one can judge you far going there, but I think you are judging yourself because deep down you know that it is wrong.

HOT 104.1's top 50 St. Louis Songs

Hot 104.1 released the top 50 songs by St. Louis artist from the last 20 years. What better way to start the New Year off by remembering all of you favorite songs from St. Louis. There were some aritist that made the list more than I thought were needed and others like Penelope didn't make the countdown at all. Take a look at let us know what you think.

1. SYLK SMOOV-TRICK WIT A GOOD RAP
2. NELLY-COUNTRY GRAMMAR
3. DA HOL’9-NINA POP
4. TAYLOR MADE-WHIRLWIND
5. CHINGY-RIGHT THURR
6. J-KWON-TIPSY
7. EBONY EYES-IN YA FACE
8. HUEY-POP LOCK AND DROP IT
9. JIBBS-CHAIN HANG LOW
10. BEANO-MONEY SNAPP
11. Nelly - Delima
12. Murphy lee – What the Hook Gon Be
13. Nelly – Hot In Herre
14. chingy-feat tyreses-pulling me back
15. Ko Ko-Mob out
16. eternity-hush
17. da bangers-run up
18. NELLY Air Force One
19. Hakeem Da Dream – Thick wit
20. Nelly – Grillz
21. Chingy – Holidae Inn
22. Joka & Tha Deck – Swing On ‘em
23. ali-breathe in breathe out
24. J-Kwon – Hood Hop
25. Nelly – E.I.
26. Gena – Dope Boy Fresh
27. st.lunatics-gimmie what you got
28. payback-things you do
29. Abyss – Catch 22
30. P-Dub – She Gotta Man At Home
31. Nelly – Shake a Tailfeather
32. Truth Hurts – Addictive
33. Jibbs – King kong
34. P-Dub – Roll wit Me
35. St. Lunatics – Let Me In
36. Vic Damone – Check My Swag
37. P-Dub – 4 walls
38. Murphy lee-shoes
39. St. Lunatics – Summer In The city
40. Potzee – Good Evening
41. just black-women aint all that bad
42. out Of Order – All hjis Money All His Cash
43. Spaide Ripper – Always
44. RAY THE KID –JUMP STUIPD
45. Potzee – Dat Girl
46. Allstars – So Serious
47. Ludy – Thang Right Thurr
48. One Man Stan – Because I Chill
49. Out of order – Work Something
50. Toya – I Do

Between the Sheets: She Had It Coming

Best friends Valerie and Dolores share a secret from their childhood. A secret so deadly that it tears them apart and ironically keeps the two tied together for life. Now grown Dolores habit of keeping secrets is stopping her from having a happy life. Her husband Paul has given her the world, but she failed to mention to him that she is married to her high school sweetheart Floyd who was sentenced to life in prison. Living a double life isn't easy but Dolores is up for it. Everything is going fine until Floyd is released from prison due to new evidence being brought forward. Mary Monroe draws you into this book and you will find yourself wondering if you should feel sorry for Dolores or if you think she deserves what ever happens to her. Regardless of personal feelings you will be on the edge of your seat as the secrets start coming to light. Co-signing the famous quote "what's done in the dark will surely come to light".

New Years Resolutions

Each year we all set those all so important resolutions. I have heard several people say they wanted to become closer to God, of course loose weight, eat better, or stop drinking and smoking, etc. This time around I have decided to try something new and that is "hold my tongue". Yes, you heard it hear first on suiteSTL Cyrssrenee is going to learn to hold her tongue. Like Murphy Lee I am soooo St. Louis, and St. Louis girls are known for going off. One year a cousin of mine was in Miami and this dude grabbed her and of course she cursed him out, and his reply was "you must be from St. Louis, all St. Louis chicks got smart mouths and are stuck up". She laughed at him because with the millions of people down there how did he guess she was from the Lou. We don't play that, please don't grab me and please don't disrespect me is most of our motto. Seriously though I really want to work on controlling my mouth, I am very quick witted and some would say that I lack tact, but that is all Sags is my defense. If not all Sags, then that smart mouth is the West Side way of life. You couldn't play on Cook's school yard without learning how to be tough or talk a good game at least. But now that I am older I look back at some of the situations I have been in, and I say if I only I would have shut up. I was thinking about the Crucifixion of Jesus and how they ridiculed him and all he had to do was open his mouth and say the words, but instead he kept quiet and only asked for their forgiveness. All I am saying is the world would be a better place. What resolutions do you plan on making and keeping?

2008 Hottest Couples #1 President Elect and First Lady Barack and Michelle Obama

There was no way any other couple was going to top this list. When I look at these two together I see love. Real love, not the modern fake manufactured love. The looks that they share on down to fist bump is just who they are. WE got the fist bump, WE understood what it meant, and WE felt proud to have them standing there, clinching the Democratic nomination. I love the fact that they are equally intelligent. Even though I am a tad bit jealous of Michelle's hair I love them. Most definetly "Change WE can believe in". Regardless to Fox News ignorance, Obama and his "baby mamma" (as they so ignorantly called her) are the real deal. No one can argue with it.