Monday, May 4, 2009

Hypotheticaly Of Course

(over a bottle of Grey Goose some friends and I (cryssrenee) started talking about relationships, all kinds of questions were coming out. We were celebrating her 30th bday and we realized that we are still clueless about men and relationships just as we were at 15 or 16)

U MEET THIS GUY, HE IS PERFECT AND YOU ARE REALLY FEELING HIM. ALTHOUGH HE IS KIND OF A PRUDE YOU GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT AND GIVE HIM A CHANCE. U NOTICE THAT HE IS A LOT DIFFERENT THAN OTHER MEN THAT YOU HAVE DATED. YOU KIND OF CHANGE YOUR LIFESTYLE TO FIT INTO THAT OF A STEPFORD WIFE. HOWEVER, YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE DYING ON THE INSIDE BECAUSE THIS IS NOT WHO YOU REALLY ARE. IS IT EVER GOOD TO PRETEND TO BE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT FOR THE SAKE OF A RELATIONSHIP?

Random Questions:
Do you ever tell your mate they suck in bed?
Is it ok to snoop if you feel they are cheating?
What is it about the bad boys that is so damn sexy?
How do you save a failing relationship even if you know that there really is no hope?
Do you take him/her back after they cheated?

6 Comments:

Anonymous said...

hell no to the tell your mate they suck

no its not ok to snoop

im a bady boy and i guess its the u cant have what u want thing, that attracts women

there is no saving a bad relationship let it go, thats why so man women in st. louis are bitter

no once they cheated they are tainted

and pretending to be something you are not is lame as hell, i rather a gal tell me uprfont about what she is, then me find out later, because it will eventually come out anyway

ICEE said...

I REALLY THNK U SHLD BE UR SELF UR ONLY HURTING U BECAUSE U WILL GET SICK OF TRYING TO KEEP UP THIS FRONT.......ITS NOT OK TO SNOOP I WLD BE TELLING A LIE THOU IF I SAID I HVE NOT DONE IT..... DNT GO LOOKIN FOR SHYT U WILL FIND IT!!! AND I HVE TAKEN HIM BACK AFTER CHEATING SO MY ADVICE WLD BE NO DNT DO IT BECAUSE NEITHER OF U WILL TRULLY BE HAPPY AND U WILL ALMOST NEVA TRUST HIM/HER AGAIN... IN MOST CASES... ALL CASES ARE NOT THE SAME SO I GUESS I SHLDNT SAY DNT TAKE HIM/HER BACK TO EACHES OWN!!! I THNK ALL RELATIONSHIPS TAKE WRK EVEN THE GOOD ONES SO A FAILING ONE.....YEA GOOD LUCK WITH THAT......LIFE IS SHORT DO U AND BE HAPPY!!!!!

Anonymous said...

My kind of party ( a drunk one. lol) Figuring out men is really hard so I just don't and I also don't think Steve Harvey's book worked either. There is no figuring they lil ignorant asses out

Mizrepresent said...

Omg, so much to say here, where do i start.

Not a good thing to change who you are for a man/woman (been there, done that, and ended in disaster)...for the changee, you wind up losing yourself and self-esteem and nothing is worth losing that.

never tell them they suck in bed, lol.

ummm, i no longer go looking, you will know the tell-tale signs, listen to your intuition.

bad boys are sexy...but being sexy alone is only gonna get you so far...bring a job, some intelligence, some wit, some humour, some respect, some fun and some passion...i got a whole lot more (see where i'm coming from)

walk away from a failing relationship as early as you can!

i have taken them back...i used to go with a 3 strike rule, not anymore, now it's 1 strike...and i'm outta here. (give them too much rope and they will hang themselves)
Whatup Leah and Jami!

Rich Fitzgerald said...

Never pretend

School them on how to do what you like, the last person may have liked what they did

You snoop, you get what you are looking for

The fact that we're bad - next question.

Why waste time if it's doomed, you are just prolonging the inevitable

That's a loaded question. You can't throw the baby out with the bath water, but you also can't be a fool.

stlnubianqueen said...

I hate women who change themselves for men, in my opinion just flat out weak as hell. i have told a guy that he sucks in bed needless to say that we are not together anymore. I took a dude back after cheating he cheated again and I was out. Why wasn't I invited to this drunken madness. lol