I was sent an email yesterday that I thought was interesting. I could dig a couple of the reasons, not that I condone cheating, but I can understand some of the reasons. However, me personally I think it is better to just leave than cheat, but as a woman I can see how some of these reasons are valid.
10. The relationship isn't THAT serious. In the beginning, you may find yourself in a brand new relationship, you're just dating but you really like the guy but you aren't quite sure if you want to be exclusive, men, you better not take too long to figure it out and seal the deal.
9. They are bored in the relationship. When women get bored with their man they may seek comfort in the arms of a stranger or an old familiar flame.
8. They aren't getting what they want out of the relationship. Most women want a place to call home, especially a house, they want a marriage or some type of commitment, and eventually, they want to start a family.
7. When he has too much baggage. Psycho ex girlfriends, baby mama drama, ex-wives with too much control, a meddling mother, over-protective siblings, bratty kids and friends that don't know when to go home, will take their toll on a woman.
6. They won't leave something for nothing. When you're just not getting along and you seem to be fighting a lot, fellas beware! Most women won't have a clean break because we need to "get under someone new, to get over someone old."
5. Ok, sometimes it is about the SEX. If a girl is having trouble climaxing, no matter how great of a guy you are, or if you have a mortgage, lease or kids together, she just might stray, depending on how bad it is and how much she really loves you.
4. When things start to go sour. Let's face it, women need a lot of attention. If you forget her birthday, an anniversary, or any other special day or if you skimp out on the other important days like Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Christmas, New Years Eve or WHATEVER, she will feel unappreciated and that is a major red-light danger zone!
3. If the relationship gets physical, in a bad way. Don't think that you could ever completely control a woman. If you try to use scare tactics, if you hit her, beat her up, or threaten her, she can and will stray at some point.
2. When she doesn't come first in your life. If you put other people before her then she will eventually stray and find herself in bed with a guy that will put her first.
1. Whatever you can do, we can do it better. If you have cheated on us and we take you back, you better be on your toes every minute of every day! Don't think you are in the clear just because she forgave you.Does this sound about right?
I think an honary one should be, SHE DOESN'T FEEL APPRECIATED!!!!! If you can't make me feel like a woman fellas me no likey.
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I know it's true but it is still shocking to hear that Eartha Kitt has died at the age of 81. Kitt who lost her battle with colon cancer lived a long life and had a successful career that lasted 60 years. She was often referred to as a "sex kitten" and with her famous cat sounds I don't think anyone could ever disagree. She is still remember from her famous line "Maaaarrrrrcus Darling" in the hit movie Boomerang starring Eddie Murphy. How ironic that the women who sang "SANTA BABY" and was heard in homes and offices all around the world each Christmas, went home on Christmas Morning. 
An outstanding actress who is still underrated, Angela has been on the scene for a while. The secret to her great look has to be the love that shares with actor Courtney B. Vance and raising their twins. Whatever the case may be these two make our list because of their solid love and longevity has survived a 11 year marriage in hollywood. They have a wonderful book "Friends A Love Story" that is a must read for everyone and recently shared the screen together as husband and wife on ER.
