Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Rules Of The Game

Dating, Relationships, Marriages, hell even being single can be hard work. When issues come up in the dating Game (and yes it can be a game) a lot of time we don't know what to do. Tell us What would you do in these "Rules Of The Game" Scenario's?

RULES SCENARIO #1: When should a woman begin contributing financially to romantic dates?
A) Only if she invites the other person out.
B) Anytime.
C) By the 3rd Date.
D) Never.

RULES SCENARIO #2: Your spouse/fiancee now hates clubbing, dancing, and random socializing in STL. The prefer to be a homebody, but you still love it! Do you:
A) Continue clubbing without them. This is who you are.
B) Endlessly coax them into coming out with you by bartering favors.
C) Hang it up. Stay home forever.

"RULES" SCENARIO #3: Ladies, you are ready to become intimate for the 1st time with your new beau. Do you:
A) Put it down on him, WWE-style: no holds barred! I got dat "good-good"!
B) Hold back a little bit on the freakiness. Save some for later.
C) He ain't gettin' any til marriage. If he liked it he shoulda put a ring on it...

"RULES" SCENARIO #4: A random cutie contacts you on Facebook/Twitter and starts trying to HOLLA. You are intrigued. Do you:
A. Ignore the flirtations. You don't know them from a can o' paint!
B. Engage in a prolonged cyber-message courtship, possibly ending in meeting at some party.
C. get it cracking after a few messages. Set up a dinner-date and see what happens.

4 Comments:

Stls_Best said...

I am dying to get my voice out there (hubby is scared). I appreciate the forum you provide

glamazini said...

SCENARIO #1: d
SCENARIO #2: d. comprimise together and find a middle ground.
SCENARIO #3: c
SCENARIO #4: a

what? i'm old. school. *shrug*

My Natural Reality said...

My 25 cents:

1) B-only if she likes the guy and isn't just going out with him to pass the time

2) A-shouldnt there be a lil compromise? (my mom has been married almost 20yrs to a man who doesn't like to leave "Larry Land"/the basement but please believe she still goes to plenty of social events)

3)Dang you makin' me feel like a sinner on this one lol...A would be fun and have him comin' back for more, but B makes more sense, and C is REALLY the right thing to do:)

4) C-this is 09...meeting people with sense isn't easy, so if ya meet one online, why not hang out??

Stls_Best said...

1=B. Opens the door to being a giver and not only a taker. Also speaks to you how caring you will be in hard times.

2=A. Go out have a good time. Come home and include that mate in on how it went. He/she may change their mind on the next outing.

3=A You do you. You waste your time and the new beau coming out of the bag on him 6 months later.

4=C Its 2009. We have a black president. So who knows what is next! Anyhow you get at least a night out, maybe a new friend or a new beau.