A Bit Of Advice

This morning I opened our email and was surprised to see that someone had sent in a letter with some thoughts that have obviously been on her mind. I have so many things running through my head and I will address her issues but this may be to big for me, she may need advice from a lot of people or probably just a good therapist. Here is the letter

7:32 PM (16 hours ago) Reply

Dear Suite,
I've recently found myself in a crazy situation. I want to talk to my friends but i know they will judge me. I am in a situation that i cant get myself out of. I've known this guy for a while and i really like him. we were just friends but the past year we have become intimate. he makes me smile and makes me feel complete. the problem with the situation is that he is my cousin's boyfriend. i know he and i should not have gone there and i really can't explain how it happened. I was pregnant by him in the summer and i had a miscarriage. my cousin was there with me the whole time rubbing my back and just being there for me. she was pissed that "the father" was not there for me. I hate going to family functions b/c they are together. Sometimes we kind of share a look or something but it makes me feel bad because she is like my best friend too. I really don't want to stop messing with him but I know that if she finds out she will be pissed at me.And don't get me wrong i luv my cousin, but this is the best relationship I ever been in. this is a horrible situation and i just need some sound advice on what to do.

Wow, I don't really know where to start with this. I normally don't like to give advice but since she seems kind of in a desperate situation we will try to help. The fact that he is your cousin's man does make this situation crazy. If I were you I would get out. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine the pain you would feel from a betrayal like this. The thing with love is that you can't help who you love, but you can stop the love. Stay away from him or just come out and tell her so it won't seem like you are being shady. No one can judge you far going there, but I think you are judging yourself because deep down you know that it is wrong.